When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do

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We often say, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” No matter where we go, we should adapt to the local customs and live in harmony with the locals, practising their ways. This is considered politeness.

 This saying originated from a historical context. In ancient times, the great Roman Empire was divided, with distinct customs in different regions. Saint Augustine moved from Rome to live in Milan. When he arrived in Milan, he noticed different customs. The Saint in Milan did not fast on Saturdays as they did in Rome. Curious, he approached the local bishop in Milan and asked about this difference. The bishop offered wisdom that would be remembered through history: 

“When I am in Rome, I observe the Sabbath on Saturdays. When I am in Milan, I do not follow that custom. If you want to avoid criticism, follow the customs of the place you are in.” This phrase evolved into the widely used advice, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.”

Every country has its unique customs, cultures, traditions, and beliefs. However, I have noticed a common belief across many countries I have visited: the practice of making wishes by tossing coins into revered places. 

In Myanmar, we toss coins into gold and silver bowls at pagodas and make wishes. In many Eastern countries, people toss coins into small wells called “wishing wells” and make wishes. Though the places where offerings are made might differ, the practice of wishing with coins remains similar.

When I visited Rome, I went to the Trevi Fountain. The Trevi Fountain, built in the 17th century in the Baroque style, is notable for its dynamic and lively architecture. The flowing water enhances its architectural appeal, making it more attractive.

At the Trevi Fountain, I learned about their coin-tossing beliefs. People are allowed to toss three coins and make three wishes. The coins do not need to be in euros; any country’s coins can be used. Later, these coins are exchanged for euros.

There is a specific way to toss the coins. You cannot face the fountain directly; instead, you must turn your back to it. Holding the coin in your right hand, you toss it over your left shoulder backwards. 

The Romans believe that the first coin is for a wish to find love, the second for a wish to end a relationship, and the third for a wish to find new love. 

Tourists believe that tossing just one coin will ensure a return trip to Rome. Many travellers make three simultaneous wishes for social, financial, and health matters.

The coins tossed into the fountain amount to about 3,000 euros per day. The annual revenue from these coins amounts to millions of euros. Every Monday, these coins are collected and donated to those in need.

Whether or not the wishes come true, participating in this local tradition is enjoyable and contributes to charity. Following Roman customs while in Rome can be a delightful and fulfilling experience.


Please make sure that our environment is not destroyed by our actions.
-May Thoon Khit-

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